Love, Repository of Thoughts

I have beheld an example of love that shackles freedom of being in present. Does love really constrains freedom of being in the moment you, possibly, may be part of? In one of my previous articles I mentioned sharply about the necessities being something that imprisons its bearer.. Yes, necessities never let one be person who may call himself a free person; in fact no one can dare to be a complete free person. Oh! I had never an idea that Love can serve as good as manacle can, yes it binds one and centralizes his attention and concern to a very tight boundary.

Well, what I believe is that Love is one of the most vital among the seven cardinal emotion we have. It attracts all sorts positive thoughts, and encourages sacrifice, valor and fraternity. I wonder, how come it can make people feel an environment uncongenial, or how can it really attract fury and jealousy?

When someone interacts with any other person it is the aura that plays its role and generates an interest or disinterest among them.

I am well convergent with a couple who love each other as Lovers do. They share all sorts of happenings, be bind, laugh together and even breathe together with a well synchronized pulse.... yeah its true.. :) But, I argue that should love get directed on a path of it being biased. Biased love is nothing but, I think, the negative form of glaring LOVE.. as biased compassion is that is exhibited my a MOTHER. If love is important then why one loses patience to wait for a moment when it is well entertained. Sometimes, I feel, to wait for something what you desire for is better than to have the object of your desire.

Love when adapts the path of fatality it becomes blind in the same way when it encourages the positive things-- support, reliability, faith and sense of compromise.

If Love binds one to a hook and let you be hanging till you are asked to then, perhaps, nothing is better silent-torture than this. People groan but with their mouths shut, they bleed but blood evaporates.... Love, that attracts insecurity and doubt is what we call negativity in disguise.

You may be wondering about the chirping couples I mentioned in the aforesaid paragraphs. You may be thinking that whether I have ever interacted with them, been with them or whatsoever.... They are my COLLEAGUES...

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Are we violent by nature?

The most dangerous and lethal killer on our planet is not the lion or tiger or the great shark but a weak and tiny creature known as man. History proves this, 1,50,000 people were killed and many more perished in order to conquer kalinga. 37 million people suffered death and injury during world war I and over 60 million were killed in second world war.

These genocides were carried out by humans, people like you and me. Man involves himself in mindless violence both on his own species as well as on other species. UN study has found out that nearly 20 million tons of fish are caught every year, 25% of this never reaches the market. It’s just dumped. This killing is faster than the breeding of fish which is ecocide.

This nature of humans is not prevalent in other species as they kill on need basis only. Every now and then we read about terrorist attacks, this is again an instance of mindless violence, terrorists are dedicated people who believe they are participants in a dynamic social or political process.

In most entertainment forms and in the actions of governments, there’s a streak of violence running through. One can see this even walking around the neighborhood, watching and listening to people, Violence – gross, subtle, physical, emotional and psychological – is everywhere. Victims and aggressors abound.

Before drawing any conclusion , I request all the members and readers of this blog to express their views.

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Happiness lies Within

Happiness needs not be brought about by any reason. It lies within us, only one is required to dig it out. Happiness once achieved does not only affects people surrounding the achiever but it also somehow subconsciously effects its bearer to great extent. Celebrations, festivals, parties and ceremonies are nothing but a pretext of having happiness for a short interval of time. Yes, I believe that a minute's mirth shades off grief of years. Happiness and grief are paradox but inductive in nature. It is a well known idea that one should pass his time with some happy people and not with the people who are swimming in the pool of despair, perhaps caused by their action or thinking. The only reason behind it is that both, happiness and grief are inductive and gets easily infused to the people in the company of their bearer. I believe it and do support it. However, if this fact is well accepted by every people then the time is not far that there will be a creation of two categories of people, sad and happy. If so happens then where this sad people will go and and whom these happy people make happy. I was just pondering over it... If all the happy people make a resolution and then make an earnest effort to make all the sad people to be like them then will not be the world marked by the idea of mutual cooperation, compassion and relationships.

I am from India as many of you all know, India is a country of diversity where different kind of people dwell having different cultures. Few countries in the world have such an ancient and diverse culture as India’s. For the majority of Indians, religion takes over every aspect of life, from commonplace daily chores to education and politics. In India there are many festivals which are celebrated. HOLI is one of the most enjoyable festivals celebrated in India. Holi is a festival of colors. It is a festival that ensures freedom to everyone who plays it. Woman especially in India enjoy a degree of freedom during the festival which is not otherwise available to them routinely.




Today I played Holi with my friends.


It was really a great fun. The importance of festivals is well understood by me now. To me it had been a greatest fun I had ever had. I am sure you can wonder why I talked about happiness above. I was just trying to exaggerate on the idea of being happy after having found a way to do so. It was really a moment when I enjoyed like anything. I ran, laughed, played pranks, titillated friends and even cracked jokes to make everything possible that may make the moment great.

So, I think is HOLI made for me to be happy, or in another way round is it necessary to fix a date when one can remain happy?.. I say, NO... can't we make every moment joyous. A great man said "you are the product of your thinking". Truly he is not wrong. There is a mental block in most of us that we can't be happy if there is no reason to be. Happiness should be incorporated in every action. If a person is not happy while donating fund to a charity then what's the use of it to him, If someone is not happy after stealing then it can never help him as this action of his was perhaps under compulsion. This was all I thought about shortly.

Before really stopping to write I would like to have the readers go through the quotes below by some great men.

• Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be- Abraham Lincoln
• You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life - Albert Camus
• Happiness comes when your work and words are of benefit to yourself and others- Buddha

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Look For Good Things

There are plenty of people one can see everywhere. I have seen many people crying and laughing based on the matter they undergo. I find some messed up in the tears and some busy spreading the aroma of happiness in a most fabulous way. I say, take a look at the HAPPIEST people you know and you will find that they haven't had a easy life, in fact they had the toughest life one can imagine. People who are successful don't get it for free. They had to do perhaps they never wanted to.

Have you noticed one thing that if we look for good things in people or in places we find it, and when we look for bad things we do get that too. Does it not seem ridiculous. But it's not.. So it's not changing your situation that makes you happier. It's changing your THINKING!


If you start finding faults in the Job you do, in your mother, in your wife, or in your partner you would certainly get a plenty. Some people spend there life finding faults in everything they are engaged in. They are fault finders and they proudly say.. "I am being realistic". I laugh at these people. They are not realistic but they are the slave of the negative emotions that they tame in them. They are negative people.


Happy people continually ask themselves,

"What is good about this situation?"


To justify this I would like to site an example

Say, if you are stuck in a traffic jam. If you are a man with positive attitude then you would think of finding good of the situation. You will think of doing something good at the present situation. Consequently you may may have the following things to do..

1. You have time to listen to your favorite music
2. You can plan the later half of your day in the mean time.
3. You may recall good times you had with your girl friend etc..

and a negative person gets frustrated and starts abusing the situation, screams and subsequently falls flat with nothing constructive work done.

One should start his day with a commitment, jot down the tasks he is supposed to do when he wakes up and start the day in most happy way. Noting down the tasks to be done doesn't let you feel sorry for any job that may be left undone at the end of the day. An honest commitment lets you fight with your strongest enemy who is no one but yourself.

So be happy, change the way you think if you can't change the situation. Be flexible and be open to all possible changes as it is bound to take place.. change is most permanent entity.

I hope I am successful in conveying the message of being happy...

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