I Can't Believe What I Believe

All of us know that we should not believe anything that cannot be proved with sufficient evidence. But i tend to believe a lieing friend more than the honest stranger WHY? When something bad happens say for instance I have a small accident, I believe that I was lucky to have escaped with a minor injury and averted from a major mishap. WHY?

People have a strong tendency to believe what they want to believe even though the consequences of their beliefs may be quite harmful to them. George Santayana once said:
Most people would rather die than think -- in fact, they do.

I think that We usually have an emotional attachment to our beliefs. They are part of self-identification., so we try to preserve them.

There is a strong belief among many Indians that death occurs if a lizard falls on the head. To avoid the death he has two options; one is touching the idol of gold and silver
lizard in Kanchipuram, Tamil Nadu, and another is to touch the person who has touched the
idols of lizards.

I am sure we all have some strange beliefs and practices or habits, but why are we unable to overcome them?

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Life And Emotions

“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it”.

I would like to state a fact which many don’t realize that how you respond to the challenge in the second half will determine what you become after the game... whether you are a loser or winner. Everyday one has a choice to make. The choice is to rule or get ruled by the day. True courage, success and happiness are all matter of choice. If one says I can’t get a good sleep because of worries I have. I would say him not to hanker for a good sleep but to do something constructive at that time. Being worried is a state of mind that phase out with the use of correct action.

Yes, action is what I mean. Action is the word which kindles the dead spirit. It lets one rise high with positive vibration to the limit of sky. The action need not be a massive one. It can be a call which you can make to your loved one, it can be listening of music, it can even be a gossip with friends. The focus of mine is to exaggerate the real meaning of action. Action is obviously judged and conducted by matter of priority one has. Actions are determined by choice and choice brings about decisive changes in one's life.


Chance and choice are different entity. Choice is what you make with your senses where chance is the product of coincidence. A gambler wins lump sum of money by chance but it was the choice he made of gambling. Fear, lust, over sexual indulgence is all result of choice one make. The transmutation of these negative emotions to positive emotions is matter of choice too.

Infamous personalities like Edison, Henry Ford, bill gates and many others achieved their goal as they made a choice to overpower negative emotions-- fear, jealousy, hatred, revenge, greed, superstition and anger with the positive emotions --- Desire, faith, Love, enthusiasm, and romance. Among the enlisted positive emotions SEX is strongest and most effective stimuli. However, this energy when transmuted to another channels brings about success and peace.

The most common reason of failure is Procrastination. It’s a habit which caries one steps ahead towards failure. This has been the most prominent reason of failure of which one become aware when he has reached on the porch of failure. Well, some will in my opinion believe that thoughts, be it negative or positive gets transmitted through the ethereal medium and has an impact of it on the people around. The notable agenda is that before a thought being broadcasted it makes a safe place in the subconscious mind of its bearer. Negative thoughts can be given another form by tremendous will power and a positive attitude. I must let you know that before really affecting someone by your thoughts, its you who gets first affected

In a summing up sense, I in nutshell would like to squeeze the real sense of the article you read. The article laid emphasis on breeding of Positive emotions like:

Desire
Faith
Love
Enthusiasm
And romance

and completely discarding of the negative emotions like:

Fear
Jealousy
Hatred
Revenge
Greed
Superstition
And anger

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Friends

Friends.

What are they?
Who are they?
How do you know you have a friend?

Everyone needs friends whether you realize it or not. One reason for this is that no one was meant to stand alone against the entire world. We are people who get further faster when we work together.

How can you tell if someone is a friend? First of all it is a comfort thing. If you have a friend, you feel comfortable with him or her. You can discuss any topic without embarrassment. You can tell him anything. He can tell you anything. Any criticism is delivered without judgement. Any advice is given without prejudice, without expectations and out of the goodness you feel towards that friend.

When something really terrible happens in your life, your true friends are there to support you. With their support, you gain strength you need to overcome obstacles. You can lean on them and they can lean on you when strength is needed.


I have a circle of such friends. Right now I am going through a difficult change in my life and really need them to lean on. Three, in particular, are very good for me now. My Swedish friend helps keep me grounded and cheers me up. My American friend is giving me a lot of things to think about, taking my mind off things I cannot change. My British friend is offering prayer and support in a large way. I know prayer works. I have an Indian friend who, although much younger than I, can offer great wisdom when we speak about the terrible things in our lives.

All of these friends are very special to me and I am so very fortunate to have met them. I would not change any one of them.

Coach Elouise
http://coachelouise.com
skype coach_elouise

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Life Shows Everything

Life shows everything. It shows love, hatred, happiness and despair. What makes us unhappy? Is it our action, is it one's thought , or is it the action of other makes one fall in the pool of despair? I say all mentioned causes cannot dare to pain you until you allow them to. But, the question still remain unrequited , what makes us unhappy?

But, why am I divulging the stuffs relating to happiness? Well, perhaps something is tiding in my mind causing a chaotic turmoil.

I learned from a Lady that there is great power in the words we say. The way one narrate a word defines his action and its consequence in turn. It really causes a effect- negative or positive. if an old man says "I am still sweet sixteen" then it may seem ridiculous to the listener but the real cream of the narrated line is enjoyed by the speaker, yes, there is a great power in words

Well, "Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions; it is governed by our attitude" -- Dale Carnegie


It is well known fact that character cant be changed but attitude changes by the way one thinks and implements. So to be in the state one want to must have his attitude molded a sit is the entity which defines his mental state and his actions.

Well, to write further I would like to mention some lives once said by a great person I know, he said "God manifests in every atom of this universe and will whenever required change the course of things , so when you pray with a powerful concentration and connect with the cosmic vibration you can learn the secrets of universe and use them for the good of the mankind, also you can find answers to thousands of unanswered questions in your mind and heart, the result will be directly proportional to purity of intention in your heart and mind and the intensity of your quest to unravel this force which is beyond comprehension and explanation"

There is a magnetic radiation surrounding every person which is called Aura, and this Aura causes a positive & negative radiations spreading respective impacts.

To move further, I will mention that I have a friend. I don't have any idea about what she thinks of me, what she considers me or how she takes my feelings? But, on my part, she is the one who imparts me a positive energy which keeps me happy for the moment I am with her. "A friend in need is friend indeed" -- this is really proved by her. She assisted me at the time I wanted her help, she listened to me, she gave her effort and tried to make me as I was. I am really obliged to that person.

This is what makes a Friend special and fabulous

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About This Site

This blog encompasses the importance and role of relationship in one's life. It reveals, how a good relationship makes one's life effected in a positive way. Real relationship means to be associated not only via communication, there must be a synchronization of feelings, thoughts and above all there should be a good understanding capability.

We have tried our best to convey to the readers the importance of friendship and its real value.
This site deals with or is about building relationships, art of meeting people, learning from others and how important are friends?..

All of the stuffs mentioned above bear a great meaning and significance in anyone's life. In a nut shell the above mentioned criteria defines the real meaning of being alive. Its really unworthy to live for ourselves, I don't call a life which is meant for itself a real life. Yes, its important to live and enjoy and being a bit self conceited about one's life but to some extent, I mean not at cost of others' happiness.


Life is another name of a long odyssey amidst of many hurdles and sufferance. One who takes it as it comes and remain stuck to what he feels right about is the one who becomes successful. I remember a great quote--

“Just remember, the same as a spectacular Vogue magazine, remember that no matter how close you follow the jumps: Continued on page whatever. No matter how careful you are, there's going to be the sense you missed something, the collapsed feeling under your skin that you didn't experience it all. There's that fallen heart feeling that you rushed right through the moments where you should have been paying attention. Well, get used to that feeling. That's how your whole life will feel some day. This is all practice. None of this matters. We're just warming up.”

I hope Our readers will really be enlightened by the articles we post on terms of great relationships and its VALUE

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Friends are Fabulous

Friends are fabulous people. This blog will delve into the many areas of friendship.

My best friends would do anything for me. If I need help, they are right there. If I am crying, they are right there to lend a shoulder. If I am lost, they will look for me and help me find myself again. If I am happy, they will rejoice with me too. I return the love as much as I can.

I have other friends with whom I am not so close. Those friends interact with me socially, but do not share my deepest thoughts and secrets. They are fun to be with. They can make me laugh or cry with their stories, feel good, feel bad, feel excited, feel sad.

Then there are the friends I have never met, yet there is a strong connection. There is a Swedish friend with whom I can share everything, as we understand each other extremely well. There is my American friend who seems to know when I need a laugh and sends it. There is my Australian friend who offers me support just when I am ready to quit. With these friends I have a deep connection that almost seems to come from another source. It is a deep and very meaningful connection. Even when not online for days, we have this connection. Almost like we can sense each other's presence in the world.


Then there are the people we meet everyday, the drug store pharmacist, the grocery clerk, the meter reader, and on and on. A different type of friendship again. Not so close, just a familiarity from seeing often.

Having different relationships with people is the gift that keeps on giving. It is the salt which keeps life interesting. It is the bread on which we feed.

I love making new friends and cultivating relationships with new people. I really love having the special friends who are always there when I need them. I especially love meeting new people every day. How do I do that?

I meet a lot of people on twitter. made a few very good friends and some very good business contacts too.


this is how I keep in touch with them all.
Skype: coach_elouise

I have tons of friends on Facebook, look for coachelouise

I can find old friends I have not seen for a while here:




Coach Elouise

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