Life And Emotions

>> Sunday, November 29, 2009

“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it”.

I would like to state a fact which many don’t realize that how you respond to the challenge in the second half will determine what you become after the game... whether you are a loser or winner. Everyday one has a choice to make. The choice is to rule or get ruled by the day. True courage, success and happiness are all matter of choice. If one says I can’t get a good sleep because of worries I have. I would say him not to hanker for a good sleep but to do something constructive at that time. Being worried is a state of mind that phase out with the use of correct action.

Yes, action is what I mean. Action is the word which kindles the dead spirit. It lets one rise high with positive vibration to the limit of sky. The action need not be a massive one. It can be a call which you can make to your loved one, it can be listening of music, it can even be a gossip with friends. The focus of mine is to exaggerate the real meaning of action. Action is obviously judged and conducted by matter of priority one has. Actions are determined by choice and choice brings about decisive changes in one's life.


Chance and choice are different entity. Choice is what you make with your senses where chance is the product of coincidence. A gambler wins lump sum of money by chance but it was the choice he made of gambling. Fear, lust, over sexual indulgence is all result of choice one make. The transmutation of these negative emotions to positive emotions is matter of choice too.

Infamous personalities like Edison, Henry Ford, bill gates and many others achieved their goal as they made a choice to overpower negative emotions-- fear, jealousy, hatred, revenge, greed, superstition and anger with the positive emotions --- Desire, faith, Love, enthusiasm, and romance. Among the enlisted positive emotions SEX is strongest and most effective stimuli. However, this energy when transmuted to another channels brings about success and peace.

The most common reason of failure is Procrastination. It’s a habit which caries one steps ahead towards failure. This has been the most prominent reason of failure of which one become aware when he has reached on the porch of failure. Well, some will in my opinion believe that thoughts, be it negative or positive gets transmitted through the ethereal medium and has an impact of it on the people around. The notable agenda is that before a thought being broadcasted it makes a safe place in the subconscious mind of its bearer. Negative thoughts can be given another form by tremendous will power and a positive attitude. I must let you know that before really affecting someone by your thoughts, its you who gets first affected

In a summing up sense, I in nutshell would like to squeeze the real sense of the article you read. The article laid emphasis on breeding of Positive emotions like:



Desire
Faith
Love
Enthusiasm
And romance



and completely discarding of the negative emotions like:

Fear
Jealousy
Hatred
Revenge
Greed
Superstition
And anger

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Friends

>> Friday, November 27, 2009

Friends.

What are they?
Who are they?
How do you know you have a friend?

Everyone needs friends whether you realize it or not. One reason for this is that no one was meant to stand alone against the entire world. We are people who get further faster when we work together.

How can you tell if someone is a friend? First of all it is a comfort thing. If you have a friend, you feel comfortable with him or her. You can discuss any topic without embarrassment. You can tell him anything. He can tell you anything. Any criticism is delivered without judgement. Any advice is given without prejudice, without expectations and out of the goodness you feel towards that friend.

When something really terrible happens in your life, your true friends are there to support you. With their support, you gain strength you need to overcome obstacles. You can lean on them and they can lean on you when strength is needed.


I have a circle of such friends. Right now I am going through a difficult change in my life and really need them to lean on. Three, in particular, are very good for me now. My Swedish friend helps keep me grounded and cheers me up. My American friend is giving me a lot of things to think about, taking my mind off things I cannot change. My British friend is offering prayer and support in a large way. I know prayer works. I have an Indian friend who, although much younger than I, can offer great wisdom when we speak about the terrible things in our lives.

All of these friends are very special to me and I am so very fortunate to have met them. I would not change any one of them.

Coach Elouise
http://coachelouise.com
skype coach_elouise



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