Friendship : A Great Relationship

>> Sunday, February 7, 2010

sometimes you get more than what you really expect and sometimes it happens that you don't get what you deserve. Why it so happens? Is it a law that is proved maximum time in one's life. Every situation in life, good or bad, has its own blessings. Sometimes blessings are in disguise that our innocent heart fail to recognize. Once upon a time a person told me that happiness and grief are a matter of time. If it's so then should we wait for the time to arrive expecting a bucketful of treasure or should we replace expectations with preference? I throw this question to you all.

I have crossed a great time in life. I have gathered experiences that perhaps is centralized to a common base of misery. I wonder because I seem to be doing mastery in being a misery-king. I have come to know that sometimes the return of a blow is given by actions that can overpower it. yes, actions are louder...


Love is the most confident, stable and consistent form of human emotion if it's in its real form. Love is that impulse that encourages sacrifice, the greatest act a human can perform. The emotion that doesn't beget sacrifice is surely not a LOVE but an obsession or a manacle that binds one to groan in the dust of misery. LUST is the assassin of LOVE that infuses the negative emotions sufficient to pollute the chastity of love. There runs a famous line--"Forgive to forget " it is really self explanatory. But, what I think is that one must really forgive himself to forget the things that he is naturally deprived of. Love really makes a lover miss himself more than his/her beloved one when they are apart. The time when they are together the happiness is nothing but a perfect bliss which prevails unnoticed. LOVE is one of the integral aspect of emotions that refills one with positivity.

LOVE has its forms that is really marvellous. LOVE exists between a couple who are tied together with a divine bond, LOVE exists between all form of relationship that breeds happiness, satisfaction and cooperation. Among all the form of relation in which LOVE play its important role, the relationship of friendship bears the most credible bond. The relationship of friendship is versatile and the most noble one. It's really not easy to define friendship. A friend is that person who knows everything about his friend and still likes him or her. A friend is one who scolds you, teaches you, cares for you and LOVE you. I value my friends more than any one I do. A good friend calls you up when he/she gets to know that your one drop of tear has been spilled. A drop of tear that gets spilled from your eyes has great importance if its value is understood otherwise it's nothing but salty water. Yes, I have a friend who cares for me, is concerned about me and even scold me. I came to know about that person when I faced a blow of time again. I think that I wouldn't have got that person as my friend if I had not faced the bad situation. It's proved that even a bad situation can be a boon but in disguise. One is only required to have an eye that can identify good amongst bad. Good and Bad are like two sides of a coin that when tossed in air yields but one result. Friends are really fabulous.





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7 comments:

WolfPac1 February 7, 2010 at 3:35 AM  

Love is not something that you need to wonder about as to weather maybe you had a chance or an opportunity in the past and perhaps missed the chance when it was there. Love is not something that may happen in the future, or you must wait for it to arrive. Love does not have to be searched for, it is not lost. Love is within you right now. Love is within you right now. It has always been there. All you need to do is open your eyes to it, open your ears and listen to it. Surrender yourself to it and you will find it. Learn to love yourself and you will learn truth. Once you see the truth, you will feel the truth. Love burns brightly within you. It is a love that connects us all to each other as one family. When you can do this you will be able to share this love with others and they will love you in return. Love is Truth, Understanding, Respect, Knowledge, Loyalty, Guidance,and Friendship. Love that is within holds all the answers to all the questions, open yourself to it.

HintsfromElouise February 7, 2010 at 12:00 PM  

Love is a many faceted gem. It has many faces and many angles. There is the love between a man and a woman, or, perhaps two men or two women, that will superceed any other friendship.
I have special friends whom I love, but it is not the same as my love for my husband. I would not trade any of them for any other kind of love. All of them give me something I need in my life and I hope that I do the same for each of them.
One special friend over thinks his ideas. tries to analyse everything like it is a physics problem. Emotions simply do not work that way.
Look inside yourself. Let yourself feel. Let yourself love.

Musheer Mubarki February 7, 2010 at 1:10 PM  

I wanna state just one line which is amazingly true..!
" Its easier for your friend to be your friend all life..than for your love to be your love.."

anand February 7, 2010 at 11:43 PM  
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anand February 7, 2010 at 11:58 PM  

Friendship is more of a feeling you get when you feel accepted by someone, Love is the feeling that pushes you to change in order to feel accepted, so that when u finally get into the circle you have a weird feeling in your stomach and lots and lots of daydreaming.

WolfPac1 February 8, 2010 at 1:28 AM  

Love is, as with Friendship, the feeling of acceptance with another person. Love doesn't push a person to change in order to feel accepted. The weird feeling in your stomach and the daydreams are not from Love, they are from Lust. Once you open yourself up to the Love that is within and see it as it is the Lustful feelings and illusions go away and you see the person as who they are, a friend. A friend that you have accepted and a friend that they have accepted, a oneness. Lust does not last, once Lust leaves you see that the person you lusted after is not who you built that person up to be in your mind and you don't see them as who you thought them to be. Then you see that it was you who did not Love them as a friend from the start. So it is the Lust that kept you from accepting a friendship based on Love for that person.

jedicool February 9, 2010 at 5:53 PM  

Love is a often confused with lust especially in the most vulnerable age of twenties.Love becomes an irresistible desire to desired irresistibly and we start building castles of happiness and everything around us ceases to be unimportant.Nothing actually changes except our perception of things, Once this castle comes down crumbling, we start finding fault with all possible things around us. Love is a very pure and the most divine feeling which never expects anything in return, not even the acknowledgment of it.Love in it's pure form always gives and never ever asks.Love that demands anything is adulterated and one must be alert to recognize it. If not he/she shall suffer for their own fault. A person in LOVE feels rejected when the love is not reciprocated but is it not wrong to expect Love from someone just because you are in love with them?

Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love. ~Albert Einstein

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