Love or fear?

When you start loving someone a sense of profound feeling prevails in your conscience. The feeling of love which may be with living or non-living thing has, probably, lots of positive effects that overturn the negativity. However, with a great happiness love carries with it an acute fear. The fear is of loosing the beloved. The fear obscures the mirth that is imparted by LOVE. Fear, but gets breed on the ground of lack of reliability and owing to existence of insecurity in a relationship.

When someone gets struck by any virtual but intense set of emotions, no
matter for a small duration, he feels alone and seeks peace having a fact in mind that even the most intense feelings are prone to taper off in due course... The best feature possibly that the human brain possess is forgetfulness. Many mishaps, mental distractions and accidents take place now and then, if we were to keep everything in mind then perhaps we would have been shedding off our tears until we were dead. I mentioned that fear always companies LOVE, but if it’s so then should we always give way to fear, Should love be obscured each time? Perhaps, the answer would possibly be “NO”..! If love is real and true then fear and other negative emotions can’t take over it.

If some person tells that , “ I can’t live without you..”. Is this really true, can a person die if he doesn’t get someone to live with. I say, if this happen then may be the person is diseased. A great person told that a man is the product of his thinking. One becomes the way he thinks. A innocent child who needs toys to play, mother’s compassion and good preaching can be molded in such a way that he tends to ignore the things what he actually needs most. They become Terrorists if they feed on fear, their thinking is given an evil shape.

Love, Fear, Anger, jealousy etc are all the outcomes of thinking and situation. LOVE is quite elusive where negative emotions are quite prominent and easily sneak up on any body who proves himself to be weak…

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Love Yourself

Today while thinking a lot in the midnight I halted on a point that echoed about LOVE. I just halted at a question that probably banged my mind. Love is a form of emotion that is most stable and divine of all form of positive stream of emotions. It is a boon that is probably behind every relationships. The question that I thought to ask you all is that, who do you love most?

Whose face appears as a answer to this question? Is it your husband or wife, a girl friend or a boyfriend? Is it your daughter, mother or father, son, daughter or the beloved pet? whom do you think that you love most?

Regardless of the face that appears to you , the fact is that love is that form of emotion that engraves a sense of responsibility, duty and devotion towards your loved one. You must have heard about Yin and the Yang. To make you all understand about Yin and yang I would like to import an explanation of Yin and Yan.

Are you the Beloved or the Lover, the Yin or the Yang in your relationship? If you do not know, think about the first time you met your partner.

Who spoke or wrote to the other first? Whoever takes action first is the Lover, the Yang, the predominantly masculine energy who takes the leadership role in the relationship. Then, reflect who waited to be noticed or invited first before responding. This person is the Beloved, the Yin, the predominantly feminine energy who takes the supportive role in the relationship. However, this is only true if you have been true to yourself when you met.

Love in itself is a great responsibility. Love is a purposeful work that attracts positive actions like being patient, supportive, cooperative, understanding and reliable. If love is devoid of these qualities then it is nothing more than a liability. Predominantly, there lies a fact that to be loved, to spread love and get a proper respect you must learn to love yourself first. Can you imagine a plant growing on a infertile soil, I hope the answer that will flash in your mind is a big "NO". Same as that, how can a person be loved if he doesn't love himself? So, the slogan is that love yourself more than anyone and anything else. Believe me, it is not an act of being self-conceited, it is but making yourself capable of doing what you want to.

Well, there is a question that may remain unrequited. The question is simple that may pop up in anyone's mind. What if a person is self conceited, impatient, mean or cunning? Can't a person of this sort realize what love is? Well, the answer is no. Love doesn't allow negative emotions, however, if given time, well worked upon and having an attitude of welcoming changes may help someone to gain the unmatchable feel of being loved.

Once we have loved ourselves most, despised negative emotions like revenge, anger, lust and fear we can share the self-emitting aura of love among people who need it. When a cup is full of water up to its brim, then any further water poured to it spills out. Same as this when our heart is full of love we can share and spread the love that probably generates subsequently. Lust is a natural assassin of love. I would suggest to carefully forbid Lust from interfering with love.

The very next time when some one asks you the question: Whom do you love most?
Then you must see your own smiling face as an answer to this question

Anand

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